Expect nothing and appreciate everything. Be kind. Love yourself and spread that love. Be positive in every situation. Be thankful for what you have & never complain.
This life is an opportunity to do something different from others. We all are unique, and we all have different qualities, weaknesses. So never compare yourself with others. Let's live our lives in a way that is fit for us. We never need to copy others' life. Don't be jealous of anyone if they getting something more than you. Because if God gives us a healthy body, food, parents, home then we are on the list of luckiest people on earth. But still, we are very much stressed about our life because from an early age we are surrounded by the relations and people who taught us to think about the future, What you want to be in the future?, save money for the future, get enough marks to get a good job in future, In all our action's we are thinking for future life. I am not saying that it is wrong or bad but now it has become a foundation of our thinking. We are always worried about the future, and unnecessary thoughts are struggling in mind, I don't have a good job, My sal...
Whenever we talk about love, most of us think about love stories of boys and girls. But love is something that is beyond our thinking level. We all have different perspectives on love. Some say that love is the name of giving happiness without expecting. Some say love is giving your time to someone from your busy schedule etc. And many more definitions I heard, read about love. But as I experienced life I am surprised except our parents everyone else loves their needs only. Only a few people have the courage to love your demerits or only parents can do. If love is God then we should love everyone and everything. And love with God is an actual form of love like Meera loves for Krishna, Bulleh Shah love for his master, Sekh Farid love with his master, and many saints from a different culture and places show us the meaning of actual love. This is the most difficult form of love. and I can say love is the name of difficulties. Meera faced very rude behavior from parents, family, husband, ...
Expectations are natural. it's common in human nature when we start to do something we expect a better result in form of money, appreciation, love. When we born our expectations are connected with our parents. And we expect much love and gift in return for our little effort in the family. As we growing up the scope of our desires and expectations increased. We went to school, college interact with new people and many are becoming a part of our life. The foundation of any relationship is based on giving and take. When we do something for others, little expectations always take place in our minds. And we start to expect little appreciation and return efforts in our hard time from them. It's common in human nature but when our expectations not fulfilled then we start reacting. And feel hurt. As per my opinion if we are doing something for others we should take it as an opportunity because we have something to give. And never feel bad if people are unable to appreciate your work an...
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