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Pray

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We all know that to maintain any relationship, we have to give time, It must have been an experience of all our lives. Similarly, if we want to create a good relationship with God then we need to spend a little amount of time in a day to pray. Pray is the strongest tool to protect us from all negativity and create a natural positivity. Almost all people believe in God and pray daily. Pray is a process of creating a relation with the invisible natural energy that sustained our beliefs. We know that God is one and we are using different ways to reach him. And worship according to our religions. People using different ways of worship to please God because our belief said he will protect us from all problems and strengthen us in every bad situation in life. He is a great listener about all our problems so we can share without any hesitation and, fear. Basically, a beautiful relationship that is only based on our beliefs for the power that is invisible. We have faith that if anyone takes ou

Expect Less

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Expectations are natural. it's common in human nature when we start to do something we expect a better result in form of money, appreciation, love. When we born our expectations are connected with our parents. And we expect much love and gift in return for our little effort in the family. As we growing up the scope of our desires and expectations increased. We went to school, college interact with new people and many are becoming a part of our life. The foundation of any relationship is based on giving and take. When we do something for others, little expectations always take place in our minds. And we start to expect little appreciation and return efforts in our hard time from them. It's common in human nature but when our expectations not fulfilled then we start reacting. And feel hurt. As per my opinion if we are doing something for others we should take it as an opportunity because we have something to give. And never feel bad if people are unable to appreciate your work an

Patience

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 Patience is a great quality of a person. Only a few people have this quality from their birth and else are learn it with time from their life experience. Patience is nature that teaches us to gives a hundred percent towards our goal and waits for it calmly with positivity to achieve without worrying about it. Or we can say a person who has the courage to tolerate rude behavior, unnecessary acts of people and doesn't lose temper on stupid acts of people from their life is called patience nature.  But now, according to the current situation of unemployment all over the world so we think totally opposite what we learned earlier and what our parents taught us and parents also sacrifice their principles for kids better future. when we were in school our teacher and parents taught us to be calm in all situations and never be impatient. Just give your hundred percent for your Goal and never be impatient, What is made for you will come to you at right time. But now we just believe in to a

Love

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Whenever we talk about love, most of us think about love stories of boys and girls. But love is something that is beyond our thinking level. We all have different perspectives on love. Some say that love is the name of giving happiness without expecting. Some say love is giving your time to someone from your busy schedule etc. And many more definitions I heard, read about love. But as I experienced life I am surprised except our parents everyone else loves their needs only. Only a few people have the courage to love your demerits or only parents can do. If love is God then we should love everyone and everything. And love with God is an actual form of love like Meera loves for Krishna, Bulleh Shah love for his master, Sekh Farid love with his master, and many saints from a different culture and places show us the meaning of actual love. This is the most difficult form of love. and I can say love is the name of difficulties. Meera faced very rude behavior from parents, family, husband,

Be Humam

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As we are born in an independent world we all have self-decided goals in life to be achieved. We all are in a race to be successful than one another. We even sacrifice all our principle of life to be more successful. But we often forget that the money earned by dishonesty, the feelings arising out of greed, become the object of sorrow in the end. Never use a false way to earn money it will become a reason for disease in your family and all your unscrupulous money will go to the doctors. The money earned by dishonesty never survives, and the sickness that we have to suffer takes its interest. So never break your principle to earn more money to be more successful.  If you find someone is very good at something tell him/her that he/she is doing good and must give your wishes for their future. never feel jealous of anyone, jealous put you down just feels happy for everyone. appreciating with words, feel happiness for others, give support in hard times all these acts are free of cost. But w

Appreciate

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Respectful, Polite, honest, and kind nature is most important in life to be happy. When we start to appreciate every small thing in life we become happier. We all need to be thankful for nature to give us such wonderful natural things to live. But we all are busy complaining about our small life problems. The topmost creation of God is human so we have to be thankful for this Great life. So we should value all humans feelings, we should respect and support each other.  we meet so many people from different languages from different cultures and totally opposite behavior from us but sometimes they create a deep impact on our life. Learn from every person whether they are good or bad everyone has a different experience. Human life is a great gift from God. Even our breath is an expensive present for us. So we just need to value this life.  When someone appreciates our efforts towards our work it gives us natural happiness and energy that encourages us to do work better than yesterday. Whe

Stay Postive

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 Positivity reflects constructive thinking, searching for a small light in the darkest moment, anticipating positive output and success, and concentrating on making life happier. Positivity is a great tool to live a happy, long, and healthy life. It almost depends upon our way of thinking that how we react to small problems.  The key to unlocking your stress is positive thinking. Positivity helps you to stay calm. Calmness has the power to control unnecessary anger that gives you positive, optimistic thinking that typically comes with motivation. A positive attitude is very much effective in reducing depression. it helps us to stay fit. It is a state of mind that is peaceful and end-all worries, looking at the bright side of life. In the beginning, it's a bit hard to change, because we are having to change what we are used to, and something that your body is used to.  Analyzing these individuals coming towards you is one method is if we will help them to be good and positive. if we

Be Kind

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 Kindness is your good behavior which makes you a helpful, courteous, gentle, and understanding good heart person. When we start doing something for others without any relation and an expectation that moment gives us real happiness. Kindness act as a development that fixes our wounds, soothes and gives us actual happiness. Our hearts should be such that feel the sadness of even our enemies. Be soft as we can't see tears even in our enemy's eyes. Kindness is working as medicine for depression anxiety and sadness. When we try to heal someone's wounds then God saves us from all wounds. We can start helping with small random activities. We need to prefer to buy a daily routine thing from small vendors as some people are working just to earn money for food and fulfill their basic needs. We can help them by buying from them.it will be our first step towards kindness when we start accepting all humans whether, black or white, rich or poor we all are the same. Let's try to do s

Be A Good Listener

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People who give you a lot of time when you're worried about something, you need to talk about your concerns, trying to understand and help you by Giving Compassion & Sympathy, and a shoulder to sob, they are the unique and hardly findable souls, if you have someone who is caring for you stands with you in good and bad times than you are the lucky one. So we also need to be like a person who can understand problems, show interest in listening to our problems. nature is cooperative, polite, patient.  People like to speak more than listen, We all want to be a good speaker, to show that our knowledge is greater than all, my perspectives are good for the particular situation rather than others. Sometimes we speak loudly to show we are more effective. But if we want to learn more things than we need to be a good listener we have to speak less and listen to others. This habit is a sign of patience in nature and respect. who have a habit of listening attentively, and sympathetically, a

Selfless Service

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Be a good human who can love unconditionally. "Be a giver, not a taker" learn to do something for others without expecting anything from them. If you get an opportunity to do something for others or to serve others than you have to take advantage of this time and thank God that God chose you to serve them. God gives serving opportunity only a few people or we can say that only selected persons got the opportunity to serve. From my personal experience of life, at some points, I felt that no one can appreciate my efforts, love, and care and I was depressed, felt upset, start complaining to God. Then I realized that there are many people who need help and many other things that we can do to please our heart. We don't need a relationship to do something for others because relations gives us a reason to expect back. No matter how much we try and how many times we said that we don't expect anything from others. But a bit expectation always in humans from their loved once ev

Humanity

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As a human, our duty is to love and to be beloved. As it's said that whatever we give it will come back to you. And one of my teachers said whatever you do today, whatever you give today it will come back to you after a few months or years whether it's love or hate, respect or insult, it's up to you what you want to do and give. So we should support each other, help each other and we have to appreciate each other efforts. "It will definitely come back to you in an unexpected way". It's my personal experience.  God created this universe with love, care. He divides himself into parts to make this universe. As written in the bible human being is a temple of living God. Humans are the best creation of God. The universe is sustained on five elements that are air, water, fire, earth, space. Only a human-created with all these five elements. All other living things made of certain elements according to their size & nature. For example, Weather born insects are ma

Acceptance

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When we start to accept life as a beautiful gift of God and appreciate nature, people and things as blessings of God than life become beautiful and easy for us. Instead of that, we are complaining about things that we don't have and fill our minds with negative thoughts. Like, when we see beautiful people than we start thinking about our color, height, slim, fat etc. We all are beloved of God whether we are black or white, slim, or fat. We all are good and beautiful because God never makes unnecessary things.  Acceptance started with you. Accept yourself the way you are. Acceptance is the name of the challenges which we face in our life cycle. In other words, we can say that acceptance is your will power to tolerate the situation . We all once face a situation in life where we can't accept that state because we expect better results but the situation is against our desires and than we start crying, complaint and this will increase our problems. And it will become a cause of de

Spirituality

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According to me,  spirituality is your internal feeling of happiness and gratitude. You can find it where you feel the peace and internal happiness that you never found in the things that you love most and in materialistic things. This is a feeling that is beyond every emotional feeling. this is the place of love where you stop thinking about unnecessary things in the world and totally relaxed for some time from your unnecessary thoughts. Some might find this kind of peace in their religious places church , temple, mosque, or gurudwaras.  To be clear about spirituality I read many religious books and I love to listen to my spiritual master words that described the spiritual path. If we really want to know about the spiritual path deeply than we need to read the life experiences of saints. Here I am going to share the life of my favorite saint.  Bulleh Shah The name Bulleh Shah is a great example of love between master and disciple. He was a great soul. An innocent person who is totally